As a single it may be hard to get out there and meet new people. While the bar scene may have been hip in your parent's day the venue that's in now is the internet. A lot of people have a fear of internet dating. There is the issue of safety, whether a person can match the expectations of an impressive profile or whether they look like their picture. Then there are those who are just afraid they will be judged by their friends and family and mocked for looking online for love. However all of that does not change the fact that the internet is a wonderful way to meet people you would never meet in a real life situation. The beauty of it is that they know you are single and looking so you will never get into a situation where you are pursuing someone who is not looking. However safety is a very important aspect so make sure you meet them in a public place that is well lit and somebody knows where you are. Also if you don't want to be too let down take some time to see a ...

There is one line in the classic hit song of Queen Radio Gaga that keeps playing on loop in my head for the past several days, “I want to break free…” Most probably it’s because I do want to break free, break free from this pathetic state of mind that I am in. I keep telling myself that I am over this break-up, I am so over the man who brought me down to my knees crying and hurting. But every day I am consumed with questions that were left unanswered when the relationship ended. How can I move on when I so want these questions answered badly? Do I just accept the fact that I will be left in the dark about why he really ended the relationship? It is not so easy to walk away from something that was so special and sacred to me, after years of being together I think I deserve a much better break up. It may sound stupid but I really do deserve a good explanation because it is insulting for me that this guy thinks that there is no deeper reason other than what he gave me. He pushed me away because ...

I don't know how Kourtney kadarshan does it, but she seems have to stuck with this guy for sake of money, otherwise, she couldn't keep her reality show going. Her show "keep up with Kardashan rating going upward, nonstop. And according to entertainment news, she was forced to stay with her boyfriend, scott, for sake of show, even she is not happy with him anymore. According to my self opinion, she just a puppet, and she never be happy living like that. Maybe those celebrities has their own story, and they are not be able to tell. Living and restrained in an unhappy marriage, relationship is one of the worst thing in the whole world. For others, as long as they got what they wanted, they won't mind to continue an unhappy relationship. They still get fame and money as they wish for. Would you consider it as a healthy lifestyle? I couldn't make such judgment myself, because one self's opinion can be bias. For me, even though you can make millions to billions of dollar, you still not happy, because you are sticking up with a guy you don't even like. ...

It’s funny how life turns out differently from what you expected or planned. It’s different for everybody obviously but we all share these I-can’t-believe-this –just-happened-to-me moments. Life really knows how to kick you in the butt, it’s like the universe’s way of telling you that something in your life is not good for you but since you can’t see it then I’ll just give you this harsh lesson. Most of the time you still don’t see what lesson should be learned, so life gives you more harsh lessons in forms of heartaches, death, illness, loss, disappointments, etc…and I think it will keep on doing that until you get it. Cruel I know but I think we just have to accept that yes, life is wonderful but it can be really brutal. As human beings it takes awhile to be enlightened, most probably we will just think that our life sucks, we think we’re so unlucky, we would question God and ask why bad things happen to us, and of course we will always blame our miseries on other people. It will take awhile but eventually we will learn to see the big picture. It is human nature to feel bad ...

Embarrassing Quirks We all have them. Let's be honest. However, you don't have to disclose you stare at the pores on your nose in an over sized mirror for an hour every night or wear the same boxers for every game your team plays during the season. There are just some things in relationships that seem quirky and cute once you know a person intimately. Wait until you have a certain level of trust and respect before letting all of yours out of the bag. Sex My most uncomfortable first date ever was when my date began hounding me about sexual questions before we even placed our order. Trying desperately to change the subject, and then ignore it, I eventually walked out and left him sitting there. If your date doesn't want to spill their entire history, likes or dislikes before their salad is served, respect that. It doesn't make them a prude, it makes them respectful. If you anticipate this relationship going anywhere put more attention on getting to know them as a person then undressing them before dessert. You Stop! Yes, we get nervous on dates. Yes, we want to tell our date all about ourselves, but shut your trap and ask a ...

Dating can be a wonderful way to get to know someone, but there is such as a thing as too much information too soon. Here are some major no-no's to avoid in conversation on a first date. Affairs of state Republican, Democrat, Independent, unless you are certain you would never have a relationship outside of your own party line, never bring up politics. Everyone has different views and there is nothing that makes people more enraged than having their beliefs questioned. The Ex The first date is too soon to bring the hammer down. Your date wants to learn about you not rehash the difficulties of their last relationship, and they certainly don't want to hear you drone on and on about yours. Keep the Ex out of your conversation until you are certain that this date has relationship potential further on down the line. STD'S/Medical Conditions Unless you have an obvious medical condition it's best not to get into a drawn out conversation about your health. Although it's wise to bring up STD's before sexual activity, unless you plan on being intimate with your partner that night, steer clear. There is nothing that will make a date head for the door more quickly. Financial Strain Let's face ...

Travel till exhaustion The more you travel and get to know other cultures and people, the more your horizons will broaden. Take the time to learn the languages of the countries where you are traveling to. Plus, you never know where and when you may meet your other half. Even if you never do, once you get old you'll have wonderful memories of all your travels to think and talk about. On top of that, you will be gracious when you get old as you will have no regrets over how you spent your life. Take care of yourself Walk regularly into the nature. Read your favorite books and cook healthy foods for yourself. Getting some quality rest will provide you with fresh energy you will need for more challenging phases of your life. You will need it if and when the right guy comes along. Sometimes getting that right hairstyle will completely change your looks for the better. Take the time to write a book and become famous overnight Use your time of singleness wisely and take the time to write a book on your experience as a single woman or a man in your thirties and become famous overnight. Not to mention that ...

Fear is a debilitating emotion that can only lead you to misery and desperation. Be assured that you still have the time to meet your better half if it is meant to be. Once you enter into other phases of your life, you don't want to regret how you spent the best years of your life. Life is best lived when you don't have remorse over how you lived your life. So, let go of your fears and start living now. Below listed are outlined steps on how to overcome your fear of singleness. Know that singleness does not equate loneliness We have all witnessed so many divorces nowadays and can be lucky to call ourselves single. There are marriage partners who live together but have no communication lines with each other at all. They may be together yet feel lonely in each others presence. Thus, it is better to be alone then with just anybody. Trust in God's timing God knows best what is good for us and the timing for when certain things should happen in our lives. Believe in destiny and trust that if it is meant to be, you will meet your soul mate when you least expect it. Use the time ...

The baby boomer generation forged a path of social reform and individual independence, as more women entered the work force, choosing careers over marriage. The focus of the American dream shifted from youthful marriage and children to personal independence and the choice of an individual, rather than family-oriented, lifestyle. Now the baby boomers are entering into retirement, or quickly approaching retirement age. Whether single by choice or by life circumstance, many baby boomers are now facing their golden years alone. Though many baby boomers focused on careers, then married later in life, some chose to focus on careers and not marry at all. Instead, they built their careers and home lives with independence in mind. Some of these baby boomer singles are content to reap the benefits of their years of hard work on their own, without a need for romantic companionship in their retirements. They have lived their adult lives setting their own independent ways, socializing as needed, but embracing "home alone" as their way of life. They might seek the occasional relationship, or even a steady special friendship. But, for the most part, they live alone, happy and comfortable in the lifestyle they have chosen. Other single baby boomers may ...

There are medical and psychological risks associated with remaining single for too long. The risks are usually higher for males than for females. Singleness if combined with social isolation over a long period of time may lead to a lack of social and mental exercises which in turn negatively affects person's overall quality of health and longevity. Related to our need for love, a study on babies in orphanages was conducted where it was concluded that babies would die if they were not held, caressed, and touched. Below listed are some of the most obvious risks associated with being single for too long: 1. Depression Depression is one of the major risks associated with remaining single for too long. Depression is usually marked by feelings of isolation and helplessness. As a single, you are more likely to fall into a depression as you may be feeling isolated and alone. As a result, the quality of your mental and physical health is likely to suffer as a result. 2. Medical consequences of singleness Singleness if combined with social isolation over a long period of time may impact our health in ways comparable to the effects of lack of exercise, obesity and smoking. It may result in ...