I read an interesting article today that asked the question: “Are you better off single?” Author Dawn Yanek makes a strong cased for the singletons, I must say. Here are her top ten benefits to being single:

1: You have a better body

Yep, I’d have to agree with this. You care more about how you look when you’re still on the prowl. Plus, the comfort of being in a relationship often leads to weight gain.

2: You’re more likely to achieve great things

Once you’re nice and comfy, why push yourself to excel? Singles still have that edge that leads to big accomplishments. (They also have more time, more quiet, and fewer responsibilities.)

3: You do less housework

Well… women do, anyway. I’d have to say this reason doesn’t hold water at all for the menfolk.

4: You can do what you want with your money—including keep it

Sure, this makes sense — though it’s probably a bigger problem if you earn a lot. (Having a significant other who makes a lot more $$$ than you do might be a very nice thing, actually…)

5: You have better sex

Probably true, but definitely open to debate…

6: You’re better rested and smarter

“Your bedmate can cause you to lose an average of 49 minutes of sleep per night. Sleeping two-to-a-bed just isn’t as restful as snoozing solo. Other studies confirm that singles generally get more rest — seven to eight hours of sleep a night — than marrieds, which enhances memory, mood and concentration, as well as allows your immune system to recharge.”

#7: You’re less depressed

I don’t know about this one — I’ve read articles that say marriage in fact leads to happier lives. I guess it depends on the individual…

8: You have better friendships

Absolutely true. I’ve known way too many people who ditch all their friends after starting a relationship.

9: Your travel tales are enviable

I think this depends on the type of person you are. If you’re into adventure travel, sure. Otherwise, I can’t agree wholeheartedly with this one.

10: You know yourself—and what you want out of a relationship

Yup–especially if you’ve lived through your fair share of relationships. It helps you hone your vision of yourself, your strengths, your needs, etc.

Nancy wrote this on July 14th, 2006 and filed it under Dating, Single Life |