For single women looking forward to meeting a nice man, in hopes of initially dating and establishing a meaningful relationship, the odds don’t seem to be favorable. I hear horror stories from female friends who just can’t seem to find a nice man. I’m sure they are out there, but where?

Although I’m not in the dating mode at present time, I have had my chances not so long ago. I had an initial interest in a few, but after finding out one is an alcoholic, another is still pining for his ex and another had the immaturity of a 16 year old, my interest waned rather quickly. I’m sure these are not representative of every man on earth, but from what I hear it isn’t too far from it - at least what many women seem to be experiencing.

I hear men saying the same thing…”they can’t find a good woman”. If good women are looking for good men and vice versa, why can’t they find each other?

Singles on dating sites is on the increase. Personal ads in newspapers are on the increase. Then there is the phone dating services. If so many people are “single and looking”, it astounds me as to why people have so much trouble finding someone who is right for them.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “nice guys finish last”. I know of a lot of women that would love to find one of those nice guys!

Kathy wrote this on June 22nd, 2008 and filed it under Dating |