You think he is The One. If you believe that he is definitely a keeper, tune in to what he wants and savor that great bonding you have.

1. He wants a faithful partner. As much as you don’t like catching him looking at other girls, he hates it when you talk about other men. Show him that he can trust you. And don’t try to compare him with other guys.

2. He wants someone who will respect his space. Being too nosy might brew you trouble. Remember, before you became a couple, you were separate individuals and lead different lives. So while sharing is important in a relationship, sometimes, respect for the privacy of one’s partner is also major in building a sound one.

3. He does not want someone who tries to change him. A key factor in a relationship is acceptance of what one is. Yes, he may have habits that are extremely annoying. But screaming for him to change is not the best way. Trust me. Only when he realizes that whatever you want from him is truly reasonable, that’s when he will do the change himself. Just be patient. He loves you the way you are anyway. Love him for who he is too.

charity wrote this on June 25th, 2008 and filed it under Hitting the Sauce |