He says he will but he hasn’t… what could you have done wrong?

Well, it could be that he’s just not that into you. It may be as simple as that. It’s quite brutal and so in your face, right? But when you ask another guy’s opinion about it, he’ll sum it up to those same lines. You could spare countless sessions over what went wrong if you could only accept that fact.

But why, you ask. “Why am I not getting that second date?” A few views from the guys might shed some light. Here goes.
Guys don’t like it when their date is not fun to hang out with. Being too loud or too shy, might send that cutie running for the door. The secret there is to create balance between the two. Guys don’t like killjoys and wallflowers. You went out to have fun in the first place. So go ahead and live up to it!

Talking about one’s ex is a big no-no. Please save the sob fest with your girlfriends. Your date may have great listening prowess, but focus on him for a change! He’s there to get to know you. Get to him as well. You might discover a sensitive heart behind that killer close-up smile too.

Be natural. Not only in actions, but physically as well. Piling all that gunk in your face might just turn off a hottie. Guys love it when their girls go au naturel. Keep it light and let your natural beauty shine through.

Being confident is great, but being conceited isn’t. Guys don’t like it when one is too arrogant or too vain. Looking at yourself in the mirror every two minutes is a major turn off. Master the art of looking great while making it look totally effortless.

charity wrote this on June 25th, 2008 and filed it under Morning After Stories |