One of the most common places where man and woman meet is the gym. When you go to the gym and see a woman who is very interesting, what are you going to do? This isn’t a problem when you have enough experience in meeting women but what if you don’t? Well, here are some of the things you might consider in order to meet pretty women at the gym:

If you are incarcerated in their pretty little i-pod universe or any media player, they are presumably out of direct approach. Men know that portable radio and I-pod are one of the biggest hindrances when socializing in the gym. The question is how do you step forward to the chick you are targeting, the chick that is in a nut shell in her own little world of sound and clearly ready to lock the rest of you out? You can try saying something clever and if she saw your lips moving, she would usually take off the ear sets and ask what? However, her exasperation in having to do so is noticeable and this is an immediate negative posture which is not that easy to overcome.

You may actually do a non-disturbing thing. You can make an eye contact with the woman whenever possible and shoot a fast and friendly smile without saying anything since she is on her i-pod and can’t hear you. If you get a return look from the woman, then this would be a good timing for you to play your skills. You also need a lot of patience because there are women who give the impression of putting off through interruption into their workout zone. So, if possible, put some little barrier first in order to set up a possible move later on.

If you are able to pull a positive eye contact response, then a little bit of chat might come out because women know exactly how to return the eye contact given them. However, if you are looking to secure your ego as much as possible, then test this signal in order to improve your chance of getting blown of in the public. It is a given fact that gym is not an ideal place in meeting women, but this idea may also give you a chance to create a play in a unfortunate situation.

The best way to view the whole deal is to grab whatever opportunities you can grab especially in the gym as an addition to your social activities, not just saving your grace and place where you are completely hanging out jut to meet pretty women because there are easier ways to get into the edge. So, better practice your skills in approaching a woman and starting an interesting conversation. Practicing how to approach women when meeting women will give you the chance to meet more and more women around you and just a reminder, never show a woman that you are nervous and that you don’t know exactly what you are doing and what you want to show them. Be confident enough and you’ll see, you’ll date one of them and you will finally get a positive response.

Florante Mangampo wrote this on June 26th, 2008 and filed it under Single Life |