The next time you spot a really hot woman near your physical proximity, I want you to analyze the exact amount of nervousness you feel when you first conjure up the image of approaching her. Does your palm sweat? Does your heart feel like it will jump into your throat?

Relax. These are all indications that you have found a woman that really turns you on, so you should congratulate yourself for having good tracking senses, for one thing. Have you also noticed that there is a certain type of girl that you really find more attractive than all the rest?

She could be shorter or taller than the average girl. She could have exotic looks, or she could be a natural-looking blond. It doesn’t really matter what type of girl turns you on more than any other, it just matters that you are acutely aware of the exact type of things about a girl that you like more than any other.

Why is this important information for you to acknowledge in relation to your nervous behavior. Because what I am about to tell you will rock your world. Are you ready for it? OK. Here it is: That certain type of a girl you like will actually like you a lot more than any other type of girl. Is that amazing or what?

That’s just the beauty of the energy of the universe at work, a certain type of synergy, if you will. And don’t just take my word for it. It happens to be a well-known fact among many psychologists that there is a certain reason you like women with a specific look in the first place. It’s more like you are subconsciously aware that these types of girls respond to you positively more than any other type, so you are more prone to find them attractive as well.

Here then is the three ways you can relieve yourself of nervousness around women:

1. TALK TO TWO PEOPLE WHEN YOU FIRST WALK INTO A NEW ENVIRONMENT, NOT JUST HOT GIRLS

When you limit your new conversational skills and great outer game to just hot women, you will never get in the groove of things because you are too worried about making a good impression on just hot chicks. But when you also start immediately talking to a guy you don’t know yet and just asking him how things are in the club or bar, you can start getting that much-need vibe where women will find you attractive because of your ability to start conversations with anyone at the bar, not just them.

2. DON’T WORRY ABOUT IF YOUR INTERACTIONS ARE GOOD OR BAD WITH WOMEN

You should always go out at night with the intention of having a good time, regardless of how many cell numbers you pick up from women, or the lack thereof. Just enjoy your moments with women and you won’t be nervous around them. Simple enough.

3. TAKE DEEP BREATHS AND RELAX YOUR MUSCLES

Nothing is worse during an approach when you initially take that first step towards a hot girl and you feel you can’t breathe normally anymore. Try taking a very deep breath and put your hand on your stomach. Can you feel that breath emanating from the pit of your stomach? That is good, if so.

Then, relax your shoulder muscles and just concentrate on enjoying the moment with this girl. All your tension should then dissipate as if by magic.

Florante Mangampo wrote this on June 27th, 2008 and filed it under Single Life |