What do you think? Does being in a relationship with someone you like guarantee your happiness and contentment?

I think not. Based from another observation with my cousin’s behavior since her break-up with her 5 year boyfriend, i think that it very well depend upon the person’s character if he or she would based their happiness simply from their relationships. My cousin has been quite desperate to have contact and spend time with her college and childhood friends ever since her break-up. it seem that she’s been too much dependent on having someone with her and would always want to go on a night out. she’s been out hunting for a new boyfie and i really think it’s a very unhealthy habit. its not like it new, coz i’ve already noticed her calling up friends and used-to-be interested guys when she and her bf would have an argument or is not on speaking terms. then after they made up, she’d discard them all and make excuses for not being available even to her friends. i an indifferent observer, i get quite disturb with the habit and though i’d keep hinting on it, she doesn’t seem to care. what’s important to her is that she should have someone with her when she wants to go out and have a good time.

for me, this is not a real wanting to have someone with you to be happy. its just plain fear of being alone and thus one resorted to using anybody available so that she would have someone with her. its not really caring nor she’s happy, her 5 year relationship did not make her grow into someone one confident and mature person rather it made her dependent on her partner.

cotton yuson wrote this on July 21st, 2008 and filed it under Dating, Single Life |