City life and life on the fast-lane. Career, business, studies and a lot of things can keep a man or woman busy in a long time. Leaving no space or consideration for a relationship, so that’s were the cliche` “no strings attached” comes in. Because of the things that keep one busy, relationships or commitments cannot be considered. The fear for relationships to become clingy and demanding along the way keep man or woman wary of entering or considering a relationship.

Other than that, who would want to keep it no-strings when the only thing missing is making it official? Many of us have experienced being hurt and heart-broken in the past. For me, this is also one of the reasons that makes me prefer a no-string set-up. The fear of being hurt again is still too great to risk believing that this time it might be better. Though at times, a guy is almost perfect, making him again too good to be true. What if it’s only superficial? Sooner you’d be hurt again. But really that is love all about. We can never blame a person for the way he/she choose her relationship mode or how she would cope up with the hurt and broken-heartedness he or she got. It their own way as we have our own in dealing with love and the consideration of it n a relationship.

cotton yuson wrote this on July 29th, 2008 and filed it under Brutal Breakups, Single Life |