yesterday, i was subjected to quite an irritating conversation with a guy i once went out with. yeah went out with him only once for i can no longer take his obvious flirtation and underlying suggestiveness that he puts in on ordinary conversation plus that fact that we is very much married. i am single, a single mom but that makes me still vulnerable to sleazy jerks who thinks that women like us are easy.

i still try to be friends with him though i limit conversations on neutral and ordinary topics. i don’t want him to think that im encouraging his flirtations. so yesterday we were talking, he’s been asking me why i don’t want to sleep with him.. the nerve! why in the world would i sleep with him a married man? then he started talking about his ex-gf. says he miss her so much. so this ex-gf is also married but is on a rocky situation and soon became separated with her irresponsible husband. he and that girl had their relationship for years without her wife knowing. says they tried to make a baby but they couldn’t. though i don’t know that girl personally i think that she’s quite crazy. she gave up on her marriage though maybe she really had reasons to, but to go on and agree to be a mistress and have a kid? i think its like picking up another stone to hit your head with. i couldn’t imagine being in the shoes of his wife. he even claimed that this ex-gf of him is is one great love, though he also love his wife. i really don’t understand why there are guys like him. the conversation gave me a huge headache.

maybe i’m just not like that girl. i have a very high regard for his wife so i never considered having a relationship with him. and maybe to other married men that would try to talk me into it. i am a woman too, and i know how much it would hurt knowing these things.

cotton yuson wrote this on August 5th, 2008 and filed it under Dating, Single Life |