Some relationships become toxic over time and little by little to where the signs aren’t so obvious until a lot of little things have accumulated. Some relationships are toxic from the start and have very obvious signs. When a relationship becomes toxic you have two choices. You can work together to heal the relationship or you may have to make the choice to end the toxic relationship.

Some relationships may only need some small adjustments to make it better, such as more effective communication. Other relationships may be severely toxic to where it’s in your best interest to get out and fast.

If you are in a toxic relationship you need to ask yourself where the problems lie. Is your partner abusive? Do the two of you not communicate well? Are both of you willing to work on your relationship and commit to making it better?

If your partner is obviously abusive and not willing to seek help, you should question why you are staying with someone who brings so much destruction into your life. As long as you stay, you are sending a silent message that you will continue to accept the situation, thus they won’t feel the need to change.

Sometimes it takes leaving for your partner to wake up and realize what they are missing and the changes they need to make in themselves. If you find the strength and determination to leave, you may find out that your partner isn’t truly who you want or need in your life.