I’m Still In Love, My Ex May Not Be

If you are saying to yourself, “I’m still in love, my ex may not be,” you need some clarity to help you with this. The uncertainty you feel is real. You are unsure that your ex is still in love with you. They may have said they do not love you anymore. This is possible. Also, it is possible that they do still have feelings for you. Many couples break up but still love one another. There are many reasons for breakups.
When you say, “I’m still in love my ex,” there is a good chance your ex may still be in love with you. Whatever the case may be, think carefully. There were reasons for the break up. Right now the two of you need some space. Space to be yourselves.

Your breakup may have been a mutual agreement. The reality of your struggle shows when you say, “I’m still in love, my ex should be with me.” There is a chance that your mutual break up was a mistake. At least now you know. Your feelings for your ex are strong.

Maybe you reach a stage where “I’m still in love, my ex wants to get back together,” just go slowly. Your togetherness has had a serious shakeup. It will take time for acceptance to happen. You both need to feel secure as a couple again. To help you through this you may find it necessary to seek counselling. This offers you a safe place to talk your issues through. Encouragement to move through this part of your lives as a couple with the thought that you will have a lasting and stronger relationship.

4 Responses to I’m Still In Love, My Ex May Not Be
  1. Nathalie
    July 25, 2009 | 5:24 pm

    I’m Still In Love With my Ex .. But His In a relationship With Another Girl right Now ! And my feelings to him are so strong …soo ? how can i get him back ?

  2. Sofia
    July 26, 2009 | 9:02 pm

    Would you take him back? That’s the question you should ask yourself. Frankly, you broke up or fell out of touch with each other for a reason. It’s hard to see that “reason” when our thoughts are consumed with our ex. I was and am still in the same boat as you. My ex was neglectful and selfish – however, because I am still in love with him, I don’t see all the negative things about him; I only see the good.

    If you truly want to get back with him, the best way is to appear as if you’ve moved on. Also, “success is the greatest revenge.” If you’ve moved forward in life or moved onto a brighter career path, he might like that and come back. My ex also moved onto to another relationship, but I haven’t, so I am still madly in love with him. I am trying to focus on my career and my wants, needs and desires to get my mind off of him. I recommend you try the same :)

  3. TONY
    August 18, 2009 | 11:49 pm

    i’m still in love with my gf but she doesnt love me at all

  4. Nathalie
    August 20, 2009 | 3:50 am

    hope so,im tring my best
    thanks sofia :D (K)