Parenting is difficult. Being a single parent makes the task exceptionally hard. As a result is often difficult to date as a single parent. If you are a conscientious parent, you do not want a revolving door of would be suitors around your children. Here are a few tips to help to make dating easier if you are single and dating.
Choose a specific day of the week to date so that your dating does not disrupt other obligations such as baseball practice, ballet lessons or parent nights at the school. Also if your date night is Thursday, respect it as such and do not plan unnecessary events.
Do not introduce your “dates” to your children until you are in a committed relationship that has longevity potential. Introducing too many people to your children before a relationship has been established can be confusing for the children as they often easily bond with adults that they feel are good matches for their parents. Conversely, if your children are difficult to please they may turn off a suitor who has not yet made an emotional investment in you.
Always let your dates know that you have children and that they are your priority. It is also advisable to set boundaries in the beginning so your partner will know what you are expecting from a relationship. If you are looking for a serious committed relationship be honest and open about your desires during the initial stages. If you only want to hang out and go places, be honest about that too.