Often more than not I can see someones underlying intentions before my spouse. For me the best thing to do is be supportive of my spouse but let him know the potential risk a female might be to him. Luckily my spouse and I have very good communication. We leave our social networking sites unlocked to where he can view my profiles and I too can view his.

Recently, a friend of his from high school began messaging him when she found he was coming back to visit his hometown. By the tone of her messages she was more interested in partying and ignoring the fact he is happily married. I tried to let my spouse know that she has poor intentions towards him. If you are wondering he actually kept mentioning he is bringing his wife and she would ignore it. I have never met this person. I had a bad feeling about her true intentions.

My spouse went inside alone first while I was busy getting ready. He came back within 5 minutes. He told me she was hugging on him and she was most likely drunk. I was not shocked to hear this. So I went in escorted by my spouse and she got very upset that he brought his wife. She left quickly.

This is something that is not cool my husband found out the true intentions she has. He was disappointed that she is this way now as she was much nicer and respectable in high school but that was 20 years ago.

Who I was seeking was a nice person my husband knows that I too could be friends with. Who appeared after all these years was a drunk woman who left her spouse to come out and try to pick up on a married man.

There should be a fine line. If you are married be in the marriage. If marriage isn’t working out for you don’t try to ruin someone’s marriage.