Dating and relationship is always a risky thing. There are heartbreaks and more heartbreaks. Not every relationship ended up like a fairy tale, live happily ever after as they say. But be assured, when your relationship turn south, you would see a lot of help books or forums on how to heal a broken heart. You would see steps or procedures that you could follow to mend you broken heart. But with all that things, the one the you want is how to win him or her back. That’s the ultimate solution to a heartbreak is getting him or her back. So how do you go about that? First everything is a mind game. You make your ex realize that you could live without him or her. Make your ex realize it’s their lost not yours. Then go about your business daily routine, but be open to a talk with your ex but make her or him realize your fine. Second be a friend to your ex, don’t break the communication between the two of you, don’t burn the bridge so to speak. Third make yourself beautiful or attractive to everyone again. Your ex will see what he or she is missing. Finally the nail in the coffin, always ask him or her out but never tell that you want to get back. Sooner or later you will see your ex is back in your arms again.