The problem with letting go in a relationship, is when would you need to let go and move on. People meaning men or women alike are stubborn when it comes to relationship they will not give up until they have exhausted all means possible. No matter how they look to other people as long as they give it a hundred ways try to win back the love of their life everything doesn’t matter. So when do you really give up? There are signs to it. First your partner are showing uninterested in you or getting back at you. Second there is this constant fighting over anything even for a small issue. Third your partner is starting to move on, date other people, which means he or she is exploring other options already. Fourth he or she already confronted you to stay away. The last one is the brutal approach, is when your partner flat out tell you to bug off. Having these signs must tell you there is no more hope for the relationship. Pursuing it will more likely drive your partner away more. It’s simply pathetic and painful for the person to pursue something that is already gone. Everything is water under the bridge as they sail, or the ship has already have sail.