I have heard at times that when you are single all the time people do not respec t you that is not always true. A lot of people are single because they dedicate their whole lives to their jobs and end up with very successful careers in the end. There are a lot of people that I know that have somebody and are still not respected. A lot of the times you may have a girlfriend that cheats on you and that is very humiliating and people will lose all respect for you and you will be very embarassed for awhile. I realize that it is very hard for a lot of guys to find the right lady and get with the right gal. When you live ina small town like me you really do not have a whole lot of options anyway and finding the right person can be very rough at times. There are a lot of the times when there is a perfect match out there and they are really finding a really hard time finding each other and a lot of the times they never find each other because they were a victim of cirtcumstances and they were just at the wrong place at the wrong time. But of course we all know it is a really big world out there and you would imagine somewhere out there you can find someone.