In a single life you can make your decision freely but marriage comes a close end to that your liberty. As much as we talk about our God ordained marriages and how to be a good spouse for you. Which are all helpful for us and give us the benefits once we married, the ordained that live life without a spouse is painful as like your tooth extracted without local anesthetic? I believe that marriages not only bring together the two persons for living the good life but it is the purpose of God for two individuals binding up a bond of long life commitment to see His will be done on this earth. I know you attend every celebration of weddings with groan and cringe, the whole idea of well-wishers coming at you with a sneaky grin and for some people it is now cliché ‘You are next’. This makes you that you are being sentenced with something uncertain. And it would become more serious and annoying one for you if you are waiting for it for 20 or more years. Being single and waiting is not supposed to be difficult, God who created the whole universe has definitely good reasons of your waiting for a marriage.