Loving your family sometimes means that you have to let them go just to keep your sanity. Many adults have learned this in life after they have been hurt by their closest family members. These adults have learned that instead of being angry with their family they can just distance themselves from them and not hold a grudge. By choosing to live your life this way you will find more peace which will bring about happiness in your life. The funny thing is that family members who have chosen to do this within their family are single and have no type of responsibility towards anyone else. It is just for some reason that people who are single have seen the light in how to live a happy life as they search for their special mate; and they have decided to live their life for them and no one else. After all that is what life is about and being happy will draw other single people who are happy in their life towards you in a positive manner. Finding happiness and not letting anyone take it away from you can sometimes be difficult to do especially if you do not know how to live for yourself and put your family to the side.