For those single folks that are in search of a relationship that is ever lasting it is out there if you begin to think outside of your own box. The reason that many single people can never find their soul mate is because they are looking in all of the places. If more single people learned to be more accepting of the fact that everyone has flaws they would be happier within themselves and with others that they meet along their journey in life. Although every single person is not in search of their soul mate there are plenty of them who have the desire to not be single in their golden years and yet they are trapped in their own boxed way of thinking. Single people need to remember just like they do not want to accept every flaw that someone has they too have flaws and need to be more willing to over look some things about others if they expect the same thing to be done for their own flaws that they have. After all no one is perfect so if you are single and looking for that perfect person then you will find yourself being single even longer than you planned in life.