There are some people who are destined to stay single for their entire life. That is because these type of people are only willing to think about themselves and how they can benefit from their relationship. It amazes me to see people of various ages that still have the mentality of not wanting to constantly be around their mate but also wanting him or her to be around when it is convenient for them. This type of thinking is selfishness to the max and the people who believe that this is how a relationship should work will always find themselves single and lonely. That is because they will never find the right person who will be available at their beck and call and yet is willing to stay faithful and away from them when until needed. Single people who feel this way will be miserable for ever deep down inside because they are not willing to give a 100% to their relationship therefore their mate will soon get tired of their ways and leave them alone to find someone who appreciates their warmth and affection that should be displayed the entire time in a relationship not only when it is convenient for the other person.