Author Archives: Brooke Hart

Becoming Single… Again

So, while I am still single from the past, most of my friends that got married during that time are now experiencing what I like to refer to as the 5 year turn around. Meaning that most of them are starting to go through divorces. I used to have a saying that I would catch…

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The Best Pick-up Places

In my time, I have run into a lot of men… all which are particularly thinking about one thing. So, in my cynicism and bitterness, I can only turn to sarcasm in order to remember some of the “best” places that men have tried to pick me up at. Please men… don’t try these… unless…

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Going for the Kill

Since dating appears to be a meat market now a days, I decided to indulge myself in a feast for a while, just to try and evaluate the reality of dating and what it really means. When you are married, you have your life in order. When you are getting divorced, your life is falling…

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When Pictures Aren’t Working

This is my advice to anyone who decides to date online. Don’t put up bad pictures. I know that you have probably heard the recommendation from others, as well as dating advice from the ‘experts’ who tell you to pay attention with the pictures because it is the first impression. I’m not just saying this…

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The Family Gatherings…

For those of you who are single, you don’t need anymore to this blog than the three words of “the family gatherings”. Those ‘special times’ when everyone wants to catch up with you and get to know everything about your life. Well, not exactly everything. Just when you are going to get married. In the…

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It Always Takes A Good Drink…

I have a new theory. Men and women need to go through their first divorce before they realize how good a woman or a man might be to them. More than this, they probably need to resent the divorce for a good 15 years before they can come around to how to really treat a…

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Types of Attraction

I think attraction is one of the most complicated parts of hooking up with someone that is supposed to be ‘the one.’ However, I also think that defining the right attraction of what you really want can really help to lead you closer to your goals. I’m bringing this up because a few days ago,…

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Stupid Is as Stupid Does

It must be a day for single men to reveal themselves. I had one man come up to me, saying that he couldn’t understand why anyone would date. According to him, women were becoming feminists that hated men for no reason and that the gender war was on to separate all of us. Well, being…

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Couples of the Future

I know that you are all probably looking for that special someone to fulfill your life, your dreams and to have a white picket fence with. However, I know there are more of you that are thinking that it’s harder to do this than ever before. If you are looking for love, it’s time to…

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The Personality Test

Okay, I’ll be honest with you. I hate the personality tests that dating sites have. But, most of the Internet sites that are up and running, and that are more effective, are using a variety of personality tests to help you find your match. While they may not be the perfect solution to finding some…

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