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Archive for the 'Brutal Breakups' Category

How to Be Single in a Couple’s World

Thursday, June 19th, 2008

So you’re currently without a main squeeze—big freakin’ deal. While seeing all your coupled-up friends canoodling can make you feel down about your solo status, the reality is that there’s a lot to enjoy about singlehood.
“Many women see that time as just a waiting period between boyfriends and don’t allow themselves to make the most […]

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Should You Be Friends After a Break-Up?

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

After a break-up, you often have the temptation to be friends. This may be because you still want to cling to the relationship and haven’t accepted that it’s over. Or, it may be because you were best of friends while in the relationship and you don’t want to lose that aspect.
The decision of whether to […]

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Damn That *****

Monday, June 9th, 2008

“Well till today i was living a bonded life, a bonded life with my partner, n jus now i realise that i am absolutley free, free from all damn bondages, i can drink whatever i want i can sleep wherever i want without caring for anybody”
This is the first comment we get today from all […]

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Relationship Messouts Going through

Friday, June 6th, 2008

Right from work when you come to your appartment do you feel paranoid and insane? you go on thinking about your past, about your partner and times of being togather? And you look at your self now left all alone? Afterall its Human nature.
We humans weather you are a Man or a woman… we get […]

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Breaking up with your partner….

Saturday, May 31st, 2008

Breaking up with your partner can lead to a feeling of extreme depression, loneliness and rejection, and experiencing a void.
1) In this situation, spend as much time as possible with your friends and family. The social support system is very important. Confide in them and talk about your problems.
2) Cognitive behaviour therapy concerns itself with […]

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How to end a relationship

Monday, May 26th, 2008

1) Don’t be evasive, unclear or vague. Be direct and to the point. This is not an enjoyable matter for either of you. Giving false hope or making your partner guess what you want, prolongs misery.
2) Don’t break up in stages. It only serves to administer low, medium and high doses of pain over a […]

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Does your partner want to end it?

Monday, May 19th, 2008

1) Your partner stops noticing the extra efforts you’ve made to look good for him/her.
2) There’s hardly any lovey-dovey talk with your partner.
3) Intimacy is no longer part of the relationship.
4) Your calls to your partner no longer get a happy response. In fact, sometimes, he/she sounds annoyed at being disturbed, making work an excuse.

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M.U.s

Friday, May 16th, 2008

M.U. As in mutual understanding. These kind of relationship has been quite rampant among youngsters and even not so young as well. Sadly, for those involved, this is one heck of a rollercoaster of emotions. One moment you’re in Cloud 9, the next you’re nursing your silly heart which has been shattered into pieces… for […]

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It’s easy to break someone’s heart when you don’t have to look them in the eye…

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

A word about breakups. Those of you who are “Sex and the City” fans remember the infamous “he broke up with me on a post-it note” episode. Perhaps you’ve been broken up with via email, over the phone or possibly (horrifically) by text message. And then there is always the “he/she just stopped calling me” […]

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It’s easy to break someone’s heart when you don’t have to look them in the eye…

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

A word about breakups. Those of you who are “Sex and the City” fans remember the infamous “he broke up with me on a post-it note” episode. Perhaps you’ve been broken up with via email, over the phone or possibly (horrifically) by text message. And then there is always the “he/she just stopped calling me” […]

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