Maybe I am too shy sometimes, I wasn't dare to make a move when I see someone I like. It doesn't matter I know that person or not? I just afraid of rejection, and afraid of so many elements that might turn into negative possibilities. Whenever I saw a person like, there are always many thought surge through my brain, and I couldn't summon up the courage to make a move toward that girl I really like. That's why I am still single. Many of my friends might call me coward, not willing to take a risk. Maybe, mistakes or errors are the great lesson course through my lifetime. I should not make all these untrue prediction all at once. But what if that one person I pursue after, she is not what I have imagined? Maybe she is evil, or more than evil than I thought she will be? Will I waste my time, or would I just make a wrong move to go after her? No way I am going to know about this, after I actually make my move right? Question after question, I just ...

One of the hardest things to do after a break is to go there and get a life of your own. Of course, you do not want to spend time in places that you went with your ex. So now it is time to develop your own interests or to renew interest in something that fell by the wayside while you were LOVE. Not only will find new activities to give you something to do than mope, you will also meet new friends and maybe a new love interest. * There are things you might consider are: * Playing a sport * During a class in something that interests you * Attend a book club * Participation in a gym or just volunteering * out into the world and discover what you love to do alone or with a group of people. The best advice I ever received, when the break was 'So what? Same date'. Okay, sounds stupid, but all the places I had hoped that would take me, I took. I did things I always wanted to do, and you know what? It did not hurt a bit. I thought people were staring at me and wonders why I ...

There are a lot of people who are in rat race. It’s a race to have the best job, the best house, the best car, the best life and yes to have the best relationship. We are so busy rushing around like chicken with our heads cut off that we do not realize that this is the biggest problem in relationships. We want it all and we want it now, so much so that we get into things without knowing the true consequences. My solution for this problem is, at least for now, to be purposely single. This means that I am not “out looking for love” or better yet looking for leads. I believe that by doing this I will see any problems from miles away, that way they won’t show up knocking at my door or knocking it down. Instead I’ll think out each opportunity thoroughly before getting into something and safe myself a lot of grief. Being purposely single might not seem like the most fun dating option, but as far as I can see it’s the only smart one. Others will be in meaningless relationships wondering aloud “Why doesn’t this love thing ever work out for me?” ...

Between the numerous points I did to obtain to some location exactly where I had been prepared to fulfill my husband, building actual self-love and respect was possibly one of the most essential, and one of the most hard. I know it is cliché, however , you won't discover the accurate and adult adore which you crave till you understand - I necessarily mean really know - which you deserve it. This really is about a lot more than just becoming in a position to describe what's fabulous and unique about you. For many years, I had been in a position to rattle off a list of my excellent features...whilst droning on about not becoming in a position to discover a great guy who appreciated me. But that was merely an intellectual physical exercise. Till I considered in my heart that I had been "worthy of consideration" by a great guy who loved and adored me, I in no way discovered a single. Dating could be extreme in the outset. We often rapidly distort points away from emotion. Becoming grounded in liking your self and respecting your self is important not just to discovering a great romantic relationship having a great guy, but ...

There is one line in the classic hit song of Queen Radio Gaga that keeps playing on loop in my head for the past several days, “I want to break free…” Most probably it’s because I do want to break free, break free from this pathetic state of mind that I am in. I keep telling myself that I am over this break-up, I am so over the man who brought me down to my knees crying and hurting. But every day I am consumed with questions that were left unanswered when the relationship ended. How can I move on when I so want these questions answered badly? Do I just accept the fact that I will be left in the dark about why he really ended the relationship? It is not so easy to walk away from something that was so special and sacred to me, after years of being together I think I deserve a much better break up. It may sound stupid but I really do deserve a good explanation because it is insulting for me that this guy thinks that there is no deeper reason other than what he gave me. He pushed me away because ...

It's hard being single when you really want to be in a relationship. It's even harder when you're a single parent looking for love. How do you navigate the world of dating when you're a single mother looking for a second chance at love? Finding someone to go out on a date with is easy, but making a connection that leads to love is not. You are more cautious in your choices because you have to consider how it will affect your little ones. A good step toward finding love is to first find friends. You need to develop friendships with other single mothers. One is you will have friends with similar interest who you can spend time with. You won't be spending all your time at home wishing you had somewhere to go and something to do. The second purpose is these new friends will keep you from being lonely. When you are alone and lonely things that would normally bother you might not seem so bad. Those things are still just as annoying as they ever were, but loneliness makes you relax your standards. Once the newness of a relationship wears off you will realize you don't like the ...

Is finding love harder than you think? You might like someone you saw, or someone you have been work with for sometime. But would you lucky enough to get her/his love as you always dream of? The reality can't be the same as what you want. But still, you gotta try to see whether is work or not for you. Have you seen the movie "Hitch"? Starred with Will Smith as the date doctor. He filled with confidence when he talk to girls, and he know how to get their hearts, like he can see through what interest them the most. All he need just play a little trick, and get their attention like he planned. I knew a few friends who are still girlfriend - less, is the problem of lack of confidence, and lack of interest on the girls? Do they need "date doctor" like on the movie? I don't believe so. Movies are for entertainment purpose, but reality is total different. You still have to work on your way to fetch the love that you deserve. You have to give your heart to ...

I believe most of us have noticed the recent news of Mr. Tiger Wood accident. It was all over the newspaper; magazine; television discussion; even radio talk shows. This accident was exaggeratedly broadcast as one of the biggest deal. For me, as I first listening to it, the reaction I got was "so what? Tiger Wood was in an accident, like everyone else." Later on, it was about his argument with his wife before the accident. Then, it was extended to he has a mistress type of big deal. I guess most celebrities have one or two affairs in their lifetime, and we don't see it as something they won't do. Because rich people have the power and money to play around outside of their marriages. Let's talk about our modern world. It seems to me most people, whether they rich or not, they couldn't abide their marriage vow to love their behalf in lifetime. They intend to go off track and find someone else to share their happiness with. What is wrong with this picture. Is that our human nature not be able to love someone as long ...

Love is the sweetest feeling in the world but can also end in a bitter ending. Everyone had been loved and had experienced being dump by a partner or suffered from a break up. After all those things happened, it's really hard to get started over again. Moving on is not as easy as it seem to be. It's the hardest part. What then after a break up? Will one try again? Will one believe in promises again? Will one love again? Will one expect again? What if the same thing happen again? Consider another break up, will a person expecting too much to be loved be at the tough process called moving on again? Will that person be trapped in a cycle which goes on and on? Are all people worth trying, risking, hoping and loving? Maybe not. It always take wise decisions and not only what the heart beating for.

There was a girl, she is a Mexican, and I am an Asian. There was nothing match between both of us here. We have different taste on food. She loves taco, torta, and tortilla, etc..... Mostly Mexican cuisine. I like Chinese, American, and other cultural cuisine. Occasionally I like Mexican food too. She likes to dress nice, and to be pretentious, while me, I don't care much about dressing. She speaks fluent Spanish; I speak fluent Chinese and English. So, we had nothing in common. Somehow, I met her in a Mexican dancing club. The kind of dancing club you have to pay $5 to invite a lady to dance with you. I, stupidly met her this way. It was not suppose meant to be like that. I fall in love with her at the first sight. But I never understood her what she was thinking. Maybe she only into money, that is why she hung out with me. Mostly, I paid for everything. I thought that I can change her heart from time to time. It approved to be useless. I lost ...