There is one line in the classic hit song of Queen Radio Gaga that keeps playing on loop in my head for the past several days, “I want to break free…” Most probably it’s because I do want to break free, break free from this pathetic state of mind that I am in. I keep telling myself that I am over this break-up, I am so over the man who brought me down to my knees crying and hurting. But every day I am consumed with questions that were left unanswered when the relationship ended. How can I move on when I so want these questions answered badly? Do I just accept the fact that I will be left in the dark about why he really ended the relationship? It is not so easy to walk away from something that was so special and sacred to me, after years of being together I think I deserve a much better break up. It may sound stupid but I really do deserve a good explanation because it is insulting for me that this guy thinks that there is no deeper reason other than what he gave me. He pushed me away because ...

It's hard being single when you really want to be in a relationship. It's even harder when you're a single parent looking for love. How do you navigate the world of dating when you're a single mother looking for a second chance at love? Finding someone to go out on a date with is easy, but making a connection that leads to love is not. You are more cautious in your choices because you have to consider how it will affect your little ones. A good step toward finding love is to first find friends. You need to develop friendships with other single mothers. One is you will have friends with similar interest who you can spend time with. You won't be spending all your time at home wishing you had somewhere to go and something to do. The second purpose is these new friends will keep you from being lonely. When you are alone and lonely things that would normally bother you might not seem so bad. Those things are still just as annoying as they ever were, but loneliness makes you relax your standards. Once the newness of a relationship wears off you will realize you don't like the ...

Is finding love harder than you think? You might like someone you saw, or someone you have been work with for sometime. But would you lucky enough to get her/his love as you always dream of? The reality can't be the same as what you want. But still, you gotta try to see whether is work or not for you. Have you seen the movie "Hitch"? Starred with Will Smith as the date doctor. He filled with confidence when he talk to girls, and he know how to get their hearts, like he can see through what interest them the most. All he need just play a little trick, and get their attention like he planned. I knew a few friends who are still girlfriend - less, is the problem of lack of confidence, and lack of interest on the girls? Do they need "date doctor" like on the movie? I don't believe so. Movies are for entertainment purpose, but reality is total different. You still have to work on your way to fetch the love that you deserve. You have to give your heart to ...

I believe most of us have noticed the recent news of Mr. Tiger Wood accident. It was all over the newspaper; magazine; television discussion; even radio talk shows. This accident was exaggeratedly broadcast as one of the biggest deal. For me, as I first listening to it, the reaction I got was "so what? Tiger Wood was in an accident, like everyone else." Later on, it was about his argument with his wife before the accident. Then, it was extended to he has a mistress type of big deal. I guess most celebrities have one or two affairs in their lifetime, and we don't see it as something they won't do. Because rich people have the power and money to play around outside of their marriages. Let's talk about our modern world. It seems to me most people, whether they rich or not, they couldn't abide their marriage vow to love their behalf in lifetime. They intend to go off track and find someone else to share their happiness with. What is wrong with this picture. Is that our human nature not be able to love someone as long ...

Love is the sweetest feeling in the world but can also end in a bitter ending. Everyone had been loved and had experienced being dump by a partner or suffered from a break up. After all those things happened, it's really hard to get started over again. Moving on is not as easy as it seem to be. It's the hardest part. What then after a break up? Will one try again? Will one believe in promises again? Will one love again? Will one expect again? What if the same thing happen again? Consider another break up, will a person expecting too much to be loved be at the tough process called moving on again? Will that person be trapped in a cycle which goes on and on? Are all people worth trying, risking, hoping and loving? Maybe not. It always take wise decisions and not only what the heart beating for.

There was a girl, she is a Mexican, and I am an Asian. There was nothing match between both of us here. We have different taste on food. She loves taco, torta, and tortilla, etc..... Mostly Mexican cuisine. I like Chinese, American, and other cultural cuisine. Occasionally I like Mexican food too. She likes to dress nice, and to be pretentious, while me, I don't care much about dressing. She speaks fluent Spanish; I speak fluent Chinese and English. So, we had nothing in common. Somehow, I met her in a Mexican dancing club. The kind of dancing club you have to pay $5 to invite a lady to dance with you. I, stupidly met her this way. It was not suppose meant to be like that. I fall in love with her at the first sight. But I never understood her what she was thinking. Maybe she only into money, that is why she hung out with me. Mostly, I paid for everything. I thought that I can change her heart from time to time. It approved to be useless. I lost ...

This is something we all experience in life rather man or women. Love can be a wonderful experience, and sometimes a painful experience, but the question of the matter is how do you find the courage to love again after you have been hurt by someone you loved, trusted, or evolved your entire world around? How do you mend that broken heart? First you have to realize that it is okay to be upset, and cry. This is part of the healing process. The more you keep this inside you, and don’t go through and emotional roller coaster the longer it will take for you to move on with your life. Second take time out for yourself. Become independent. Get to know yourself. Because after all you have to love yourself in order to love someone else, and by loving yourself you begin to set standards for yourself, and when you get the courage to start loving again your choices of men or women become more clearer. You see your ideal companion, and what you choose to tolerate or not. Most important thing to remember when getting back out in the dating world is to not jump into a relationship so quickly because ...

How many of you actually sign up with facebook? I had signed up with facebook long ago, but I rarely used it. Not until recently, a friend of mine posted some of his wedding pictures on his profile. I had chance to log into that social networking website again. I discovered there were many of my lost friends posted their photos up there. There is a section where you can find your long lost school mates. All you need to do just select the school you went to, and the year you graduate from that school. It was pretty fun actually. So, I started my first experiment with the girl I really want to see back in my high school year. Surprisingly, I found her, and her recent photo. If I am not mistaken, she must be married. Because there is a photo of her holding a little child. I regretted that I didn't make my move to her when I had the chance. Now, maybe I shouldn't be single anymore. I will be the lucky guy to marry her. After some browsing, I saw a couple ...

I want to get married, as most of my friends are married men now, Some even have their own children; and their children even grow up to be teens. For me, I am still single here. What a big joke for me. Am I not destine to find someone who truly meant for me? I was worried, and I was frustrated. Even now, I couldn't find that significant someone for me on this big sea of fish. A few years ago, I met this Mexican girl from this Mexican night club. I thought that I could make a difference with her. What it turns out to be, she just using me the whole time, sucking up my money and use my softness within me. I am totally stuck. I even fought for her with my mom. Now, I am totally regretted what I did. She will not be the one for me. Never been, and never ever been. What I believe just a sack of rubbish. Across cultural love just my own fantasy. I will be doomed if I married her I guess. Now, ...

If you are saying to yourself, "I'm still in love, my ex may not be," you need some clarity to help you with this. The uncertainty you feel is real. You are unsure that your ex is still in love with you. They may have said they do not love you anymore. This is possible. Also, it is possible that they do still have feelings for you. Many couples break up but still love one another. There are many reasons for breakups. When you say, "I'm still in love my ex," there is a good chance your ex may still be in love with you. Whatever the case may be, think carefully. There were reasons for the break up. Right now the two of you need some space. Space to be yourselves. Your breakup may have been a mutual agreement. The reality of your struggle shows when you say, "I'm still in love, my ex should be with me." There is a chance that your mutual break up was a mistake. At least now you know. Your feelings for your ex are strong. Maybe you reach a stage where "I'm still in love, my ex wants to get back together," just go ...