College students who suffer through relationship drama now have a source to turn to. Pina is also the author of her critically acclaimed book , The Ultimate College Relationship Guide: How to Distinguish Between Love and Drama, which includes her best bits of advice to anyone who needs it . Some student relationships tend to attract drama because they are mirroring what is familiar to them, Pina said. If one grows up in an environment in which there is emotional highs and lows, the tendency will be to unconsciously look for that same type of experience in love. Of course, it can be a bit challenging at times, to maintain a relationship while attending post-secondary education. Depending on your workload, there are times when students are really tempted to blow off assignments to spend time with their significant others. Pina's advice would be to use this opportunity to strengthen your will power, and use as a test to see how well you balance love and school work. It takes discipline not to obsess over a relationship and maintain balance in life. This is definitely a good test of learning how to draw emotionally healthy boundaries in relationships, said Pina Pina coaches students to ...