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		<title>Comment on Independence Through Single-hood by BluNRay</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2012/01/25/independence-through-singlehood/comment-page-1#comment-17222</link>
		<dc:creator>BluNRay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 07:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Melanie Wilcox,
In addition to your post I was wondering, Clueless vs Showgirls
Can&#039;t Hardly Wait vs Jurassic Park
Varsity Blues vs House Party
Romeo &amp; Juliet vs Jumanji
Don&#039;t Tell Mom the Babysitter&#039;s Dead vs Hackers
Office Space vs Airheads
Reality Bites vs Space Jam
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 2 vs The Net
Encino Man vs Stargate
She&#039;s All That vs Rookie of the Year
Clerks vs Mortal Kombat
Empire Records vs The Cutting Edge
Jerry Maguire vs Super Mario Bros
Ace Ventura Pet Detective vs Home Alone
Titanic vs 3 Ninjas
Friday vs Point Break
Billy Madison vs The Craft
PCU vs Silence of the Lambs
Singles vs Half Baked
Forrest Gump vs Batman Forever
White Men Can&#039;t Jump vs Bad Boys
Swingers vs The Blair Witch Project
Austin Powers vs The Mighty Ducks
Scream vs Sleepless in Seattle
American Pie vs Mo&#039; Money
10 Things I Hate About You vs Tommy Boy
Cruel Intentions vs Speed
Boyz n tha Hood vs The Crow
Airborne vs Dunston Checks In
Wayne&#039;s World vs My Cousin Vinny
Independence Day vs Weekend at Bernies
Dangerous Minds vs Free Willy
Thanks</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Melanie Wilcox,<br />
In addition to your post I was wondering, Clueless vs Showgirls<br />
Can&#8217;t Hardly Wait vs Jurassic Park<br />
Varsity Blues vs House Party<br />
Romeo &amp; Juliet vs Jumanji<br />
Don&#8217;t Tell Mom the Babysitter&#8217;s Dead vs Hackers<br />
Office Space vs Airheads<br />
Reality Bites vs Space Jam<br />
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 2 vs The Net<br />
Encino Man vs Stargate<br />
She&#8217;s All That vs Rookie of the Year<br />
Clerks vs Mortal Kombat<br />
Empire Records vs The Cutting Edge<br />
Jerry Maguire vs Super Mario Bros<br />
Ace Ventura Pet Detective vs Home Alone<br />
Titanic vs 3 Ninjas<br />
Friday vs Point Break<br />
Billy Madison vs The Craft<br />
PCU vs Silence of the Lambs<br />
Singles vs Half Baked<br />
Forrest Gump vs Batman Forever<br />
White Men Can&#8217;t Jump vs Bad Boys<br />
Swingers vs The Blair Witch Project<br />
Austin Powers vs The Mighty Ducks<br />
Scream vs Sleepless in Seattle<br />
American Pie vs Mo&#8217; Money<br />
10 Things I Hate About You vs Tommy Boy<br />
Cruel Intentions vs Speed<br />
Boyz n tha Hood vs The Crow<br />
Airborne vs Dunston Checks In<br />
Wayne&#8217;s World vs My Cousin Vinny<br />
Independence Day vs Weekend at Bernies<br />
Dangerous Minds vs Free Willy<br />
Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dating as a single father by Steph</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2012/01/19/dating-as-single-father/comment-page-1#comment-17213</link>
		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 12:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is it the case too that you have to be even more careful with who you choose as sitters?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it the case too that you have to be even more careful with who you choose as sitters?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Men &#8220;Afraid&#8221; Approaching You by MenAndWomen.info</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/12/06/why-men-afraid-approaching/comment-page-1#comment-17184</link>
		<dc:creator>MenAndWomen.info</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 03:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A blog forum and social media platform for Men And Women.</description>
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		<title>Comment on 5 Mistakes made by Single Women&#8217;s by MenAndWomen.info</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/12/06/mistakes-made-by-single-womens/comment-page-1#comment-17183</link>
		<dc:creator>MenAndWomen.info</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 03:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A blog forum and social media platform for Men And Women.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Using caution during the holiday by Divorce Lawyer</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/11/30/using-caution-during-holiday/comment-page-1#comment-17132</link>
		<dc:creator>Divorce Lawyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 09:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nobody asks for a divorce. Divorce is a rough time for. When a person repeats the vow, &quot;till death do us part,&quot; we never expect to have to deal with a separation.Although, because of certain life circumstances, divorce does find its way into our lives and we must deal. In order to get through the difficult process of divorce, it is necessary to have a divorce attorney.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nobody asks for a divorce. Divorce is a rough time for. When a person repeats the vow, &#8220;till death do us part,&#8221; we never expect to have to deal with a separation.Although, because of certain life circumstances, divorce does find its way into our lives and we must deal. In order to get through the difficult process of divorce, it is necessary to have a divorce attorney.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Men &#8220;Afraid&#8221; Approaching You by Steph on Men</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/12/06/why-men-afraid-approaching/comment-page-1#comment-17130</link>
		<dc:creator>Steph on Men</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 22:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very true, particularly about having too many friends around you. And of course you must smile to attract a man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very true, particularly about having too many friends around you. And of course you must smile to attract a man.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Psychological Impact of Child Raised Without a Father Figure by Raising and Understanding Children of the Divorced &#124; Dating and Relationships</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/11/28/psychological-impact-of-child-raised-without-father-figure/comment-page-1#comment-17098</link>
		<dc:creator>Raising and Understanding Children of the Divorced &#124; Dating and Relationships</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 20:08:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Stay single until the right one by Tess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 16:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree with you.I&#039;m happy to find someone who thinks in the same way I do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree with you.I&#8217;m happy to find someone who thinks in the same way I do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keep on practicing abstinence by Dr. Dennis Neder</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/10/16/keep-on-practicing-abstinence/comment-page-1#comment-16991</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Dennis Neder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 20:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Tom! Thanks for your comments.

Who in the hell ever said anything whatsoever about &quot;guaranteed success&quot;? What relationship ever has that? That&#039;s rather specious, isn&#039;t it?

What I do know is that while sex isn&#039;t the most important thing in a relationship, it&#039;s right up there in the top 3! What would happen if you only had 2 of the 3 skills you needed to do your job? Answer: you&#039;d be looking for a new one.

What you want to do is to take people that are damaged and compare them to the vast majority that are not. That&#039;s ridiculous.

However, consider that; anyone that is in the dating world at all has the responsibility to deal with their own mental health issues BEFORE they venture out to inflict them on someone else. Expecting someone else to fix your problems is pretty heinous and absurd.

Ultimately, our sexuality is the #1 factor in who and what we are. As I like to say (considering the huge amount of physical and social resources we dedicate to it) we are all just life support systems for our genitalia. That considered, we all have the obligation to bring the highest level of skill and experience to our partners and our healthy, happy, sexy relationships.

So Tom, before you go about telling me how to do what I do every single day, I suggest you consider from what platform you&#039;re coming from first.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder 
President/CEO/Executive Producer
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Remington Publications 
BAM! Productions
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
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Producer of &quot;BAM! TV&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Tom! Thanks for your comments.</p>
<p>Who in the hell ever said anything whatsoever about &#8220;guaranteed success&#8221;? What relationship ever has that? That&#8217;s rather specious, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>What I do know is that while sex isn&#8217;t the most important thing in a relationship, it&#8217;s right up there in the top 3! What would happen if you only had 2 of the 3 skills you needed to do your job? Answer: you&#8217;d be looking for a new one.</p>
<p>What you want to do is to take people that are damaged and compare them to the vast majority that are not. That&#8217;s ridiculous.</p>
<p>However, consider that; anyone that is in the dating world at all has the responsibility to deal with their own mental health issues BEFORE they venture out to inflict them on someone else. Expecting someone else to fix your problems is pretty heinous and absurd.</p>
<p>Ultimately, our sexuality is the #1 factor in who and what we are. As I like to say (considering the huge amount of physical and social resources we dedicate to it) we are all just life support systems for our genitalia. That considered, we all have the obligation to bring the highest level of skill and experience to our partners and our healthy, happy, sexy relationships.</p>
<p>So Tom, before you go about telling me how to do what I do every single day, I suggest you consider from what platform you&#8217;re coming from first.</p>
<p>Best regards&#8230;</p>
<p>Dr. Dennis W. Neder<br />
President/CEO/Executive Producer<br />
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.<br />
Remington Publications<br />
BAM! Productions<br />
818.334.8826<br />
<a href="http://beingaman.com" rel="nofollow">http://beingaman.com</a><br />
<a href="http://beingaman.tv" rel="nofollow">http://beingaman.tv</a><br />
Publisher of &#8220;Being a Man in a Woman&#8217;s World I &amp; II&#8221;<br />
Producer of &#8220;BAM! TV&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keep on practicing abstinence by Tom Black</title>
		<link>http://thesinglelife.net/archives/2011/10/16/keep-on-practicing-abstinence/comment-page-1#comment-16988</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Black</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 21:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dr  Neder, 

I agree statistics are strong on this point you make, but please keep in mind that statistics are a tool, a guide to an average, not guaranteed success.

As a Dr I think you need to consider your response a little differently, you have your opinion and that&#039;s ok, but to scould someone as ignorant and archaic thinking because you dont agree, is well... Bullying! And shame to you!

Who are you to say such things?

Abstinence is not always chosen due to old fashioned religious beliefs! It could be the decision a rape victim makes, a molested child victim makes, it could be because they want to share such emotional connection with just one partner as a life choice? Are these archaic reasons, hell no! Is your response ? Hell yes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr  Neder, </p>
<p>I agree statistics are strong on this point you make, but please keep in mind that statistics are a tool, a guide to an average, not guaranteed success.</p>
<p>As a Dr I think you need to consider your response a little differently, you have your opinion and that&#8217;s ok, but to scould someone as ignorant and archaic thinking because you dont agree, is well&#8230; Bullying! And shame to you!</p>
<p>Who are you to say such things?</p>
<p>Abstinence is not always chosen due to old fashioned religious beliefs! It could be the decision a rape victim makes, a molested child victim makes, it could be because they want to share such emotional connection with just one partner as a life choice? Are these archaic reasons, hell no! Is your response ? Hell yes!</p>
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